Why is it so hard to just meet someone I can love that will love me back. I'm easy to get along with, I have bunches of female friends and none of them ever see me as anything but friends. I cant change who i am as a person, so I'm nice, supportive, creative, sweet, romantic. What is it you all want. A tiger cant change his stripes. I was raised by my parents to be a good man. What does a guy gotta do.