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She's done it . . . AGAIN

Hello fellow ranters (: okay so, i have this friend, shes gorgeous and she knows it. In short she strings guys along. She'll flirt with many at a time, endlessly and shamelessly, even if she has a boyfriend. She goes from one to the next in a flash. She'll be with a guy for a few days and then end it. Next thing you know a few hours later, a new guy. Then when her ex (or one of them) goes to her "oh i love you baby" she'll end it with her current boyfriend and go out with the one "who loves her". Its really getting on my nerves, and ive told her she needs to change her ways or shes going to get a name for herself, but she didnt listen. Im not the only one who finds this appauling am i? i mean, there are so many nice guys that fall for her and she plays them like gosh knows what. I feel bad for the biys because they have no idea and alot of them really like her. Not to mention she meets boys on the internet and will go out with them without meeting them or getting to know them. A fair few times shes gotten into trouble and ive had to bail her out. It really infuriates me because she thinks she can have any guy she likes and shes messing so many nice guys around. Jeez, feels nice to get that off my chest. All my love, N x

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anonymous ranted 7 years, 1 month ago.
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Kigo Rants commented on this rant 5 years, 4 months ago.

I agree. the more she does this the more she will be considered a slut to some people. sorry for being really mean. but yeah.

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anonymous commented on this rant 6 years, 2 months ago.

and i know someone who got pregnant because of her flirtiness(if there's such word)

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ijustwanttorant commented on this rant 6 years, 2 months ago.

i doubt that any of the guys she dated is taking her seriously.

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anonymous commented on this rant 6 years, 10 months ago.

Who are trying to save, your friend, the boys, or yourself? She's going to be who she is, and after a while everyone will know her for what she is. The boys will get used once, and if they're that dumb, over again and again, that's who they are. If your friend doesn't listen to you, maybe it's time to find a new friend, if she values your friendship, she'll be back... because that's who you are.

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Sounds like a very reckless thing to do. She will inevitably get with a very *very* bad guy without even realizing it. Karma finds a way of coming back around sometimes.

This is just my opinion, but it also sounds like she may have insecurity issues. I assume that's the reason why she goes from one boyfriend to the next claiming that the new one "loves" her as you mentioned.

Overall though... very reckless behavior. I've also read some stories online about drunk ex-boyfriends... not good. I hope for the best for the both of you.

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

She's already had a few bad ones. One guy threatened to kill her because she ended it with him for yet another guy she met on the net. She didnt know anything about either of them, nor met any of them. I had to go speak to our child protection officer. She didnt learn. She still dates guys from the net.

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MeatPete commented on this rant 6 years, 11 months ago.

Unfortunately this is not atypical behaviour for a very attractive girl. Ultimately, this behaviour will lead to negative outcomes. If she flits from one relationship to another like that, it doesn't say much about her level of commitment either. Further, she risks having only shallow relationships, and ending up not being able to have a deeper relationship.
She is in dire peril, of her own making.

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Mmonkey commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Lol I wish something horrible happen to her. That's the only way to learn

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welshsteve2009 commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Not the best advice or attitude monkey!

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Jeez :L

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Things that goes around will always come around. That's why you always should try your best to do the right thing. A lot of good looking girls like to use guys for the attention when all one really need is the attention from that one person they're in love with.

Good looking guy's behaviors are similar to hers. So even if they go out with her, they will leave her after they find a better looking one. That's what happens when you decide to be shallow.

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Yeah, karma will bite her in the ass. Still, makes me feel crappy with all the attention she gets :/ ahh well.

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Looks like it already did. I knew another girl like her who had to move across the country to hide from her stalker ex-boyfriend. It sucked for her! Trust me, you don't want that kind of attention. You don't want someone to love you mostly for your appearance. It's very shallow. If looks are so important to someone, that means when they see someone more attractive, they will go with that person if they get the chance.

Another thing is, if you're her and you always had that kind of attention, chances are you will get jealous of other girls who are more attractive than you! That's what happens when you like to get that kind of attention. You will start comparing yourself to other attractive girls and you won't like it when another girl gets more attention than you. Don't get into that game....It's a disaster! It's better to go with a genuine person who just loves you for who you are. There's someone special for everyone! =)

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welshsteve2009 commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Very nicely said and I agree totally :)

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Wow, this is all true! I never thought of it that way! Thank you so much! I feel so much better!
I guess i was blinded by the idea of a lot of attention. Its not that im an attention seeker, i just dont think its fair if you get me? Wow, im glad you said what you did, now i know to not play that game! Thank you x

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

;)

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Mmonkey commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

this is the kind of girl that attracts lots of guys, that's just how it is. beauty trades off brain power

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Yes, because she is easy. She met up with a guy she met on the net and lost her virginity to him. He never spoke to her again. She came crying to me, as usual. I had to fix it. And tbh i find intellegence far more attractive than looks. I like a good convo with a guy.

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welshsteve2009 commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Again, I agree. tbh, yes, there are some very attractive women out there, I admit it, but I am not shallow and have always been attracted by not just intelligence but by attitude and general persona.
Case in point: I know a few beautiful girls, stunners in fact...... smoke, swear, abusive etc need I say more
I would never entertain a relationship with such a girl.

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Exactly, its just not attractive.
I like a sweet smart funny guy who i can actually talk to that isnt gross!
i hate guys that spit, erugh.

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welshsteve2009 commented on this rant 7 years ago.

Nice to know there are other like minded people out there :)

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welshsteve2009 commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

omg, I have similar friend. I don't know if you are male or female btw.
I am male and had best female friend. I have watched her do the very same thing but as a close friend I have supported her when she fell. I have always been straight with her and never encouraged her. I always warn her but then it got to a point where she thought I was simply being jealous, like omg!
Eventually it got so bad that even out for casual drink together she was off flirting with guys right in front of me instead of chatting with me. Well, needless to say, we are no longer friends. Although as a friend my love was unconditional there comes a point when you can't be there any more. I tired of picking up the pieces especially when she started disrespecting me.

And before any critics try and tell me I was jealous, it is not the case.
I tell you a little story;
I used to go out with my best male friend for a quiet drink and chat. you know, rant about home life,work, gf's, men talk etc
Any how, many times I have had girl interested across bar. My friend say to me "Go for it, she likes you..."
Umm, nope!
I'm here for a quiet drink with my friend, not to flirt with girls. If I really wanted to flirt I would have gone later clubbing or something but that is not me.
My female friend offered me none of the same respect. Even when we went out to celebrate my Birthday recently I spent the time alone at the bar watching her flirting and dancing with several guys. A very lonely birthday night for me.
My advice to you, if you love your friend then support her until you can't any more. you know when that time will come. Like holding onto a cable. You can try your best to hold on as long as you can but inevitably you WILL let go!

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

im a girl (:
ah my days your friend sounds like a bit of a player, sorry.
some people in this world just have no clue.
They are going to get themselves into serious trouble one day and its people like us that have to fix everything because we just want everyone to be happy.
i see your point though.
im like that, if someones interested in me i like to sit and have a good convo with them to get to know them and meet up a few times before anything happens, you know? Sure i flirt a little but thats if ive known a guy a while (say a yearish) and really know him and get to like him.
Thank you for your advice, it has really helped me think about things (:

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welshsteve2009 commented on this rant 7 years ago.

:)

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years ago.

It seems to me that emotionally she is a train wreck. Though she is pretty on the outside, she has very low self-esteem on the inside and has nothing substantial to offer intellectually. When the relationship gets past the initial "skin-deep" stage, she no longer has anything deeper and more meaningful to offer and she knows it. Instead of trying to better herself as a person she moves on to the next person and start all over again. By "playing" guys, she is hiding her insecurities. I hope she gets some professional help before she ends up with some horrible disease or a really, really bad and abusive relationship.

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Thank you so much for all your advice and help guys, its really helping me (: x

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Wolfsinger commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Ahh, the terror that is an attractive woman who knows it. or a good-looking bloke who has let it get to his head. Fell foul of it many times in the past...some do it with more or less self-knowledge and more or less spite, don;t judge them all the same. Sometimes it's enough just to take the wind out of their sails a bit, others...well, some do need a good slap upside the head before they catch on that the world isn;t really theirs for the playign with. And sadly, some get into trouble with nobody to pull them out.
What can I say but - go with your gut instincts, and if it looks like trouble, don;t go there

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rantfooster commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Your friend is a selfish inconsiderate pig and I hope she doesn't toy with some emotionally unstable guy.

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aznboisings commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

I think your an awesome friend first of all.
And to say the least, your friend sounds like she still doesn't understand the concept of love yet. Give her some time and I'm sure she'll freshen up to the idea that love isn't just about who says "I love you" first.

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Thank you (:
i do try my best to look out for my friends.
Yeah i hope so, this is getting really difficult for me!
I actually can not keep up!
Shes had so many boyfriends, alot with the same name and shes all "you know dan he messaged me yesterdat saying he loves me!" so i say "which dan?" and shes like "you know, the one before James!" so i have to say "Which James . . ."
its THAT bad! my days . . .

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welshsteve2009 commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

sorry, I can only laugh at that comment...

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welshsteve2009 commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Yes, you are awesome! To come here and share your feelings with all shows you really do care but at the same time it seems you are getting to breaking point! I hope all goes well! :)

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

thank you (:
yeah i just dont know what to do anymore.
im so busy fixing her life, i harldy have time for my own!
thank you very much x

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welshsteve2009 commented on this rant 7 years ago.

You're very welcome Ms. Anonymous. I think things will take their natural course and you will simply react and respond to the situation as best you can. Stick with her until you feel you can't any more. At some point you will realise you need to take a step back and let her fall and she will realise that her friends can't always be there to catch her.
TYhis is what I have done with my friend. I know for a fact she misses me being around but I have decided to keep well away for now until she finds her feet again. I haven't abandoned her for good. I have my own life too as you said yourself and am getting on with it. I do miss her though but she really does need a reality check. Maybe, given enough time, I will consider giving her a second chance (umm, actually, that would be a fifth chance by now). best of luck Ms. Anon :)

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

I think she maybe an attention whore. She needs the affection of many guys like how an alcoholic needs booze. It is something that should not be done, but she is so addicted to it, she just can't stop and soon or later, it will come back at her harder and more destructive. Having attention is good, but it should only be certain kind of attention and not just having attention of guys so they feel like she love them, and then dump them.

Sometimes I think hot girls feel that they have it, why not show it. This is a reason why I just don't feel that being with a hot girl, or any type of girls that think this way is pleasing. It will just break you heart and ruin your life. This kind of girl just causes more problems for themselves and the people around them.

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tommyg commented on this rant 7 years ago.

SImply cut off the friendship with that chick

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Sounds like she has some issues to discuss with a psychiatrist. Always looking to feel wanted, perhaps because people didn't want her when she was a child or teenager. Now, she feels like she always needs someone who wants her.

She better watch out cause her luck will run out if she keeps breaking hearts.

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years ago.

she IS a teenager, only 16 in fact! This is what has me so worried. If shes like this now imagine when she is older! She just thinks its cool to rake up the numbers.

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

Straight up hoe tendancies doing hoe activites, damaged goods lack of attention daddy issues and everything else..........Pretty much let that fall to the waist side one day you will look upon her like yeah I remember her she sure like the attention haha Now Brenda got a baby

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 1 month ago.

This is true. A few times i have accompanied her to the sex clinic to get the morning after pill. Sigh.