There's a girl I barely talked to from work that's trying to get information from me about her ex. I helped her more than other people when we first met but we didn't talk much afterward. We started talking again recently after bumping into each other. She seemed very interested in making friends with me now for some reason. I'm under the impression that it's because she wants to know why her ex would tell me that they broke up. She have always said that he's a very private person and she's been bringing that same subject up evertime she got the chance. She says he's a liar among other bad things and that she really hates him. Even though I told her it was nothing, she kept emphazing how she's confused about why her ex would tell me that they broke up because he's a very private person.
I don't know her or her ex very well and I don't want to make them hate each other any more than they do after the bad break up. My friend says maybe she's so curious because she was thinking about getting back with him and what I knew was important to her decision. Her ex asked me out to lunch twice while they were still together but it was probably more of a friend thing. I also saw him talking to attractive girls when she's not around. Does it mean anything? I'm not someone in a position to judge. I honestly don't know him. I've never gone to lunch with him. The only things I talk to him about is important things that we needed to take care of at work. I feel guilty for not giving her the details but I don't know either of them well to know who to help. Her ex did a lot of favors for me at work so that's another reason I'd feel like crap for saying anything.