This is a pretty FAMOUS question among both males and females, don't we all agree?
It's ridiculous how many people out would rather go through all the crap they can take instead of picking up that intimidating phone to call the person they like. Instead of calling, they go and cyber stalk them or talk about the person with their friends. What's the point??? Just pick up the darn phone and call if you want to know how that person is doing or what's going on with them.
In the end, if the both of you think the same way, you never get to talk to each other.
NOTE: Don't assume anything about the person or come up with your own conclusions about anything if you didn't speak to them!