I've got one word for you, roommate!.... OMFG .... OMFG!
You're telling me I can't bring my friend over to work at "our" place because you need to work on your stuff and you can't concentrate with other people there! However, you think it's okay for you and your god damn boyfriend to have heated arguments all the way until 3am in the morning and threatening to hurt yourself with sharp objects? MAKES total sense!!!