She only contacts/spends time with me when she needs help.

It's my FREAKING BIRTHDAY and she sees all my birthday wishes on my FB wall, and I get a message from her asking about my ochem notes without any well wishes! x_x She could have just emailed me instead of sending me a message through FB — at least THEN it would not have seemed so blatantly obvious that she purposely "missed" every indication on my wall that it's my birthday

Ugh, this is really starting to bug me.

I met her freshman year of college and she seemed like a great person and all. I thought we'd be good friends because 2 of our mutual friends are very dear to me, and we've gotten along pretty well.

It turns out, she has only initiated contact with me whenever she has wanted something. I.e. "Hey let's study for physics" (because I'm good at it and she's not). Like wth? I didn't HAVE to study physics with her. In fact, studying with her slowed me down! But I genuinely wanted to help.

Just got a message from her asking about my previous Ochem lab notes and tests. I hadn't talked to her in a while, and then out of nowhere, I get a text message asking about chemistry stuff without even a "Hello" or "How are you doing?"

DANG! I've helped this girl with A LOT of stuff, and she can't even give a "Hello" when she asks for something?! (Except when she really wants something). Shoot! I could have spent all that time as a private tutor and charging $$!

It seems like the only good times we have now are when she teases me about guys I like haha.

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anonymous ranted 7 years, 7 months ago.
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anonymous commented on this rant 5 years, 9 months ago.

I hear ya, anon!!
This happened to me too, with really old friends who used to be close!! One of them messaged me on FB, they were real subtle about it, saying 'hey, what's up' first, then I realized after all this time apart she only wanted me to help her with her English paper. A full on edit, and her writing was s***. Same thing happened with another friend, except at least she had the decency to call...I guess.
I just tell her that I'm too busy, or to go to people who actually volunteer to tutor. Or, you know, ask the instructor/prof directly. Being assertive is the hard part!

anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 7 months ago.

Don't make yourself available to her 100% of the time and confront her about what is bothering you.

anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 7 months ago.

Dump her. Ignore her. Just RUN for your life! LOL. =P

Don't get involve with this type of girl!

anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 7 months ago.

Yeah, I'm working on being more assertive and not involving myself in relationships where genuine concern and friendliness for the other person are not reciprocated. ^_^