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Why did I take her for granted!?

Why did I take her for granted!?

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SLOMO ranted 7 years, 2 months ago.
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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

if you feel this strongly about her, i'm sure there will be other guys feeling the same way and are approaching her too. you're fooling yourself to just stay in your corner and wait for another guy who's going to comfort her when she might be feeling lonely without you around. even if she had feelings for you, she might go for the guy who's there for her when she's lonely over you.

you will end up being one of those old people that are divorced and telling stories about how you met the perfect one for you but you let her slip away. the kids hearing the story will be like, "uh huh"....these kinds of stories have been told too many times by the older folks. why? it's because a lot of people are like you....they choose to let their fears get in the way.

but then again, maybe she's gone because you took your time to take action.

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years ago.

WOW I WOULD LIKE TO DEDICATE THE JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE SONG TO YOU "CRY ME A RIVER"

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SLOMO commented on this rant 7 years ago.

HOW BOUT THIS...I CRIED A LAKE.WHY DONT YOU AND BITCH-MADE JUISTIN TIMBERLAKE GO JUMP IN IT!

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ji commented on this rant 7 years ago.

That just sounded very mean. I don't think anonymous meant anything negative towards you.

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Calai commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

Not sure. But I know it's so EASY to take what we have for granted. And I know it sounds cliche, but for many us, all too often we don't know what we have until something slaps us in the face for a reality check.

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SLOMO commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

IT MAY WORK BUT HOW WOULD YOU KNOW?OTHER THING IS SHE REALLY DONT HAVE A HOME.SHE WAS HERE WITH ME.I HAVE NUMBERS BUT EVRY1 IS ANGRY WITH ME FOR HURTING HER SO I AVOID THEM BECAUSE I WILL SAY THE WRONG THING BECAUSE I FEEL THEY DONT KNOW EVERYUTHING.I DO KNOW THEY CARE FOR HER AND JUST TRYING TO PROTECT HER.

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

If you can be alone with her, it's easier to talk. I know how this works because I'm very picky and I used to get mad at every little detail with my ex(I know it's bad, it's just me).

Sincerity and your ability to express yourself is key. You have to also pick the right words to say too. Not everyone is a smooth talker but since you two know each other for such a long time, I don't think she'll mind if you didn't express yourself perfectly.

One thing my ex did that made me laugh and got me to soften up is, "I'll be your slave forever and I'll do anything you want, just don't leave me Honey". (I just realized recently that one big reason why we didn't work out was because he had a big English problem and we argued all the time mostly because he couldn't comprehend English well.) You can say things like this to make her laugh and also get the point across that you'll always be there for her to love her.

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SLOMO commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR POSITIVE INPUT.SORRY IF I SOUND HARSH SOMETIMES THATS ONE OF MY FLAWS

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

dont' get offended so easily. it's not good for you and others around you. if it's one of your flaws, you should improve it. families can fall apart with this kind of flaw.

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SLOMO commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

I'M TALKING TO HER BUT SHE IS NOT TALKING BACK.I'M OFFENDED BY THE COMMENT ABOUT HER GETTING THE WOOL PULLED OVER EYES BY ANOTHA.THATS NOT A FACTOR.SHE IS NOT A HOHOPPER.THATS WHY IT WOULD BE SUCH A TRAGEDY IF I CANT STEP UP.A LOVE LIKE THIS DONT FADE QUICKLY. "TK"1LUV

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

so you think she's gonna just wait around for the day when you have the guts to do something about it? people have to move on with their own life with or without you. if she moves on without you, you'd be the reason for it. she's not going to be single forever, she needs to settle down and have a family.

if you can't do what you're suppose to in order to make her happy, then i think she has every right to move on without you. if you're going to make her sad even before you two are together, why would it be any different once you're actually a couple?

you have a lot of making up to do if you want her to talk to you. do something sweet to show your love for her. you need to show that you know your mistake and that you'll treasure her from this point on or something like that... good luck.

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SLOMO commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

TO ANONYMOUS THAT SAYS THAT IS SHE GONNA WAIT FOR ME.WELL WE BOTH HAVE HAD OUR CHILDREN.IN FACT I JUST SENT MY OLDEST SON TO COLLEGE LAST YEAR AND MY OLDEST THIS YEAR AS A SINGLE FATHER.SHE AND I HAVE ALREADY DECIDED THAT WE HAVE A FULL HOUSE.THE PROBLEM I THINK WITH ME WAS I WAS CARRYING BAGGAGE FROM MY KIDS MOM.SHE GOT ALOT OF THAT AND WAS VERY PATIENT.I KNOW THAT I AM THE BLAME IF I CANT GET HER BACK.

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

If that's the case, I'm sure you can get her back!!! Just make it up to her and treat her right from now on. But first, go get her flowers and do other thoughtful things to cheer the girl up. If she doesn't want to see you, send the flowers to her house or work. You can go straight to her house, bring the flowers and just hug her then tell her how much you love her and need her in your life. This will work if you do it right.

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SLOMO commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

well i'm just praying that it just a slap!i know i would be losing a lot if it becomes more than that.

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

Talked to her yet?

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SLOMO commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

fildo you say you let (7) get away.then after a vist 40 years later you say you dont need them?what did you go to jail for pimping to figure that one out?well i feel she is the one i would be waiting for on the "otherside".

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anonymous commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

Here's the background of this rant post:

"I'M A MAN THATS BEEN IN LOVE WITH A LADY FOR ABOUT 7 1/2 YEARS AND TOOK HER FOR GRANTED AND DIDNT TREAT HER THE WAY SHE DESERVED TO BE TREATED BY ME.SO I THINK I CAME UP 26 DAYS SHORT GOING TO THAT NEXT LEVEL WITH HER AND ITS KILLING ME.ITS HUMBLING BUT SO HARD FOR ME EMOTIONALLY.SHE IS THE ONE AND KNOW SHE FEELS THE SAME CUZ SHE TOLD ME THAT ABOUT 26 DAYS AGO AND I IGNORED HER PUT MY DEFENSE OR WALL DIDNT RETURN DA LUV THAT SHE WAS FROSTING ME IN.YES THATS WHO I AM.THE GUY WHO WOULD GIVE JUST ABOUT ANYTHING TO RETURN THAT BACK TO HER LIKE SHE DESERVES AND I WANT TO GIVE......."TK"FOREVER-N-DAY"

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fildo commented on this rant 7 years, 2 months ago.

I LET 7 GET AWAY.AFTER A VISIT 40 YEARS LATER I COUNT MY BLESSING,WE DONT REALLY NEED THEM ,AND THEN WE ALL WIND UP DEAD ANYWAY,SO JUST KEEP ON LIVING UNTIL YOU TAKE THAT INEVATABLE DIRT KNAP!THE GOOD ONE HAS TO BE ON THE OTHER SIDE.